A little setup. Then just the two of you. Read Safety & rules together before you begin.
01 · Where you are
Care comes first.
The game is an invitation, never an obligation.
Safeword: red stops everything, yellow means slow down and check in. It always beats the game.
Every level is 10 cards (both players combined). After 10, the heat goes up: Bell Pepper, then Jalapeño, then Habanero. Re-check the box together at each new level.
Pass: skip your card, but you must take a penalty dare from one level lower (Bell Pepper penalties stay Bell Pepper). Penalties don't count toward the 10.
Hard pass: ends the game on the spot. No explaining, no sulking.
Interfering with your partner's dare is allowed, only within the boundaries set before play; never interfere with a stop signal or safety equipment
Long distance: play over a video call. One of you runs the game and reads the cards aloud, or both open it and keep turns in sync. Photos and videos stay between you two.
Adults & boundaries: Consenting adults only. Agree limits and photo/video storage before play. Declining any activity never requires a reason; a penalty is optional too.
Technique: Impact belongs on fleshy buttocks or outer thighs, never the spine, kidneys, joints, head or neck. Use only low-temperature body-play wax, tested on the inner arm; keep wax off genitals, broken skin and hair. Keep trauma shears beside rope; use quick-release restraints, check circulation frequently, and release immediately for numbness, tingling or color change. No suspension or unattended restraint.
Equipment: Use adjustable nipple clamps for a few minutes at most; unclip, never yank. No improvised collars or constricting bands; collars must be loose and breakaway, with no pulling or sleeping in them. Temperature play stays external: keep ice moving, never insert it; oil must be body-safe, never hot, and kept away from latex barriers.
Signals & hygiene: Before any gag, rehearse a visible stop signal with a free hand; no gag with oral penetration. Keep the nose unobstructed and never put weight over the mouth or nose. Anal toys need a flared base and lubricant; clean toys, hands and penis or change barriers before any vaginal contact. No scat, breath play or choking. Watersports: hydrate first; use the shower, tub, or a waterproof sheet; keep piss off broken skin and eyes; rinse after; skip it with a UTI.
Remote & aftercare: No self-binding, self-gagging or neck restraints when alone; a video partner cannot release you. Keep your hands free and equipment removable. Follow every scene with release, warmth, water and a check-in. Stop for pain or distress; symptoms that persist need medical attention.