Pick every turn. Last pick is highlighted — never auto-chosen. Dom never sees this screen.
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Make it your night.
A little setup. Then just the two of you. Read Safety & rules together before you begin.
01 · Where you areExtra heat & game options
Care comes first.
The game is an invitation, never an obligation.
Safewords:red stops everything, yellow means slow down and check in. If a mouth is busy or gagged, use the non-verbal signal: drop an object you're holding, or tap three times. The safeword always beats the game.
Nice deck: The Dom may switch to the Nice deck whenever the Sub is reaching her limits or needs an intensity break. The Sub may ask for the Nice deck at any time, and the Dom must honor it.
Roles: he's the Dom, she's the Sub. Most of his dares are orders, but his deck has some light sub moments where he receives the teasing or takes small instructions. Not every dare is about power. About half of each deck is just sexy.
Levels: 10 cards per level, both of you combined: Bell Pepper 🫑, then Jalapeño 🌶️, then Habanero 🔥. Re-tick the consent box together at every new level.
Carolina Reaper ☠️🌶️ is optional and comes after Habanero. Both of you must opt in. Say your hard limits out loud before it starts. Keep Reaper sober: no alcohol or other impairing substances for either player that session. Use the technique rules below and finish with aftercare. No scat, no breath play or choking, ever.
The brat option (her secret): before each card, she picks 😇 Sub or 😈 Brat on her private screen. Brat draws a brat move instead of a normal card. Once she's done it, his next turn automatically starts with a "Tame the brat" punishment. Brat moves and Tame cards count toward the 10.
Reversal 🔄 (optional): when it's on, about 1 in 8 dares becomes a reversal card. She's in charge for that one card, then the roles snap back.
Private screens: on one phone, the game shows a "Pass to…" cover between turns. Only the player whose turn it is looks until they tap Done. No peeking at her choice.
Long distance: each of you runs the app on your own phone and picks whose phone it is. Nothing syncs. Draw your own cards, and tap "Partner finished a card +1" each time your partner completes one, so both phones keep both counts and level up together. When she bratted, she tells him, and he taps "She bratted" to draw his Tame card.
Pass: skip your card and take a penalty dare from one level lower (Bell Pepper penalties stay Bell Pepper). Penalties don't count toward the 10.
Drinking game (optional): a pass costs 2 sips plus the penalty dare. At Bell Pepper and Jalapeño you can drink 3 sips instead of the penalty. Some cards add "take a sip" or "give a sip". When someone hits the drink cap, they switch to water. Alcohol impairs judgment: never combine drinking mode with bondage, wax, clamps or Carolina Reaper, even below the cap. A sip count cannot establish sobriety. Once anyone hits the cap, the game locks Carolina Reaper for the night.
Hard pass: ends the game on the spot. No explaining, no sulking.
All adults, all consenting, just the two of you. Photos and videos stay between you two.
Technique: Impact belongs on fleshy buttocks or outer thighs, never the spine, kidneys, joints, head or neck. Use only low-temperature body-play wax, tested on the inner arm; keep wax off genitals, broken skin and hair. Keep trauma shears beside rope; use quick-release restraints, check circulation frequently, and release immediately for numbness, tingling or color change. No suspension or unattended restraint.
Equipment: Use adjustable nipple clamps for a few minutes at most; unclip, never yank. No improvised collars or constricting bands; collars must be loose and breakaway, with no pulling or sleeping in them. Temperature play stays external: keep ice moving, never insert it; oil must be body-safe, never hot, and kept away from latex barriers.
Signals & hygiene: Before any gag, rehearse a visible stop signal with a free hand; no gag with oral penetration. Keep the nose unobstructed and never put weight over the mouth or nose. Anal toys need a flared base and lubricant; clean toys, hands and penis or change barriers before any vaginal contact. No scat, breath play or choking. Watersports: hydrate first; use the shower, tub, or a waterproof sheet; keep piss off broken skin and eyes; rinse after; skip it with a UTI.
Remote & aftercare: No self-binding, self-gagging or neck restraints when alone; a video partner cannot release you. Keep your hands free and equipment removable. Follow every scene with release, warmth, water and a check-in. Stop for pain or distress; symptoms that persist need medical attention.